Remember that first sip of coffee when the world is still quiet and hopeful? That’s the feeling I want visitors to carry away from this space.
I launched my original blog, My Moments of Whimsy, in the early days of the blogging era. It was a way to reclaim my identity. Somewhere while marrying, divorcing, and trying my best to raise my kids, I lost myself. In the years since that very first post, this space has grown alongside me.
At 51, I’m evolving once again. Life is different. I only have one kiddo at home, I’m now a grandmother, and I’m attempting to establish a career as a creative. So this space is changing too.
My original blog was safe, simple, and serviceable. But after losing my mother (my ultimate style muse) in 2020, I keep hearing her voice in my head cheering me on, encouraging me to try new things, be bold, and take up space. She bloomed in her 50s, and I’m determined to do the same. Courting Whimsy honors her spirit with unapologetic color, curiosity, and courage.
I say all this to say, please excuse the proverbial dust as this space undergoes a little bit of a renovation.
Whether you’re a new subscriber or an OG follower, in the words of Hova….allow me to (re)introduce myself!
Hi, I’m Courtnee!
Proud GenX wife, mom of five, and grandma (aka Grae)
Romance author (pen name Courtnee Chase) writing spicy, heart-heavy love stories for readers 40+
Maximalist at heart: dedicated to florals, polka dots, and the mixing of aesthetics
Planner nerd, bourbon lover, recovering night owl, and believer that small joys save lives
What You’ll Find Here
Style Outfit formulas, thrift-haul remixes, confidence tips for dressing for yourself in midlife
Home & DIY Colorful and eclectic deco, flower arranging, “15-minute glow-ups” for real-life schedules
Life & Story Vlogs, planner deep-dives, candid life chats, and behind-the-scenes of indie-authorship
My goal is simple: living authentically—without waiting for permission, perfect timing, or the elusive “someday.” You’ll leave each post or video with one of three things: practical inspiration, permission to play, or a hug in digital form.
How to Join the Fun
Subscribe on YouTube for weekly videos.
Sign up for the Whimsy Report newsletter—think pep talks, favorites, and first-look content.
Say hello on Instagram (@courtneerae_)
Let’s curate wardrobes, spaces, and stories that feel like a wink to our younger selves and a high-five to our future ones.
With joy and whimsy, xoxo—Courtnee
Core Values Statement: At courting Whimsy, we believe in science, no one is illegal on stolen land, LBGTQ+ people have a right to live, love, and exist, black history is American history, and women’s rights are human rights.
